How to Tell Everyone About Your Book Without Dying
When I was just out of college, my mother used to proudly tell people I was a writer, unless I first managed to stop her. I tried to stop her because I knew what would come next, the dread question, "So what has she published?" The answer at that time was one humiliating word: "Nothing." The conversation would then wither up in shame. I lived a double life. Inwardly, I considered myself professional writer, who would one day be published. Outwardly, I hid this identity from all but close friends and family. It's perhaps not surprising that the heroine of my fantasy series, Dindi, leads a similar double life, practicing her magic art in secret. However, I became so adept at concealing my passion that once my novels were actually published, I found it difficult to switch from secrecy to publicity. I belonged to several writing communities online, that helped me bridge my shyness. After all, it's okay to tell friends who are sharing my journey toward ...